A crucial part of The Law of Attraction is having a vision. But both vision and the Law of Attraction are funny things! I remember watching “The Secret” back in 2008 and I KNEW there was truth in it. But I just couldn’t get it to work.
So when it comes to creating a vision of what you want in your life, you
The 5 Keys
- Get clear on what you want by collecting examples of what makes you feel loved. Go through past relationships but also extend that out to friendships, family and even encounters with people you meet briefly.
- Get clear on what you absolutely don’t want in your relationship. Go ahead and write out every complaint that you have about every past relationship. Every single behaviour that you never want to experience in your relationships ever again!
- Here’s the important bit – change every single one into the behaviour or treatment that you DO want. Without this, your subconscious mind just has a picture of what you don’t want and has no idea what it is that you do want. Your subconscious is like a computer that will output what you tell it to output without making assumptions that it’s bad or that it’s what you don’t want
- Put your two positive lists together so that you have a thorough vision of what you want. This is powerful for your subconscious mind because it speaks 2 languages it understands – emotion and imagination. So your subconscious mind knows what you want and can work with your conscious mind to make it happen.
- Think about what you need to do allow this vision into your life and take inspired action. this vision is a mirror of what you want in love. If you want someone to accept you, you need to accept you first. If you want someone to love your flaws, you need to love your flaws first and so on.
Watch out for another video coming soon for more on step 5 – the how of making it happen and changing your relationship patterns FOREVER!