Being a psychic healer means you know and feel the pain behind appalling behaviour. You know why someone constantly puts you down. You know why they call you names and make absurd accusations. You know why they have to deny the truth.
Because you can see, feel, hear, know or sense the pain underneath their fragile self esteem and the healer part tries not to give up on them, always hoping for better days.
You know why they go into their heads and shut off from their heart. You know why they feel they have to justify their own rightness. You know why they try to shame you into feeling socially unacceptable. You know why they need to you feel disempowered.
Because you can see, feel, hear, know or sense the pain that keeps them feeling powerless and afraid of their heart. And you know things can be different.
Yes, they deserve our compassion and love on a soul level. That wounded inner child desperately needs love and attention. As a child they deserved so much more than they got.
But now, you deserve your compassion just as much, if not more. You inner child deserves to be in relationships that offer safety, playfulness, happiness and nurture.
Let the healer in you work with people who are ready and willing to change their lives and who respect your ability. Get yourself away from the presence of people who drag you down, bully, shame or blame you.
By all means, send them love. But do it from afar. Keep your highest healer vision of love alive. But do it from afar.
Thank them for all they taught you about what love isn’t. But do it from afar.
Forgive them for their mindless behaviour. But do it from afar and do it for your own happiness.
Yes, you have a shadow and you need to know yours. But don’t let their shadow, their projections and their psychic attacks lead you to believe that you ARE their shadow. You’re not.
You can’t control what people see in you. You can control whether you allow yourself anywhere near their energy.
Save your beautiful, caring, broken, mended, courageous healer heart for people who see it and acknowledge it. Surround yourself with people dreaming bigger, being truthful, soaring high, lifting you up, living in alignment and taking responsibility for their lives and their own healing.
Live your life as the example of what psychic healing can actually do, not what it could potentially do. Don’t be a victim in someone else’s drama. Be a divine co-creator of your life. <3
(My relationship healing meditation can help you remember the bigger you in relationships and separate yourself from the problems people have. It’s a gift for signing up to my mailing list where I’ll send you more reminders of who you really are <3 You can access it here. )